You see it every day. Hecklers who try to interrupt a comedian's set..usually with disaterous results. Online disputes between complete strangers about a variety of topics. Politically divided conversations amongst opposing factions. Generally, the expert is challenged on their work by an observer. Sometimes they're interested in the subject. Oftentimes, they want attention. Trolls. Haters. Critics. Miserable Individuals. I call them Basement Dwellers. You can give a person the whole house, but they choose to go lower and settle for the least. No matter how you try to sway the minds or the message, they just want to infuse their own agenda. So what do you do? How do you maintain your dignity and your success while quashing the "noise". I got these tips come from Entrepreneur magazine.
1. Distinguish haters from critics.
2. Don't take it personally.
3. Use it to get better.
4. Humanize yourself
5. Don't focus on the negative.
I implore you to put these tips into practice as you face your own challenges. Recognize that they can only come from their knowledge levels and experiences. Everyone has a different skillset and approach matters in ways they've learned. That's why it's important to know who surrounds you and who supports you. What have you worked through? Any thoughts to share? Please share your comments below. Stay safe and stay healthy.
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