Be Positive

Happy Friday!!! Its the freakin' weekend and general day of joy. But have you ever encountered a "Negative Nancy"? A "Debbie Downer"? I mean someone who can suck all the joy out of any situation? Even worse, do these same folks try to rain on your parade? Just downplay every effort you make? It's truly a wonder how these people got this way and continue to exist. As someone who tries to help individuals, I run into a number of clients who've had bad breaks. Some have rehearsed their sad sob story to a pitiful perfection.  Others are grateful that they're still alive and kicking. I draw the line at those who are in relationships. Please don't tell me how horrible your partner is if you continue to stay. I don't care about your entanglements. And PLEASE don't share the emotional details of your up & down, ping pong, fire & ice, break up to make up situationship.  The old saying goes "if you like it, I love it". Some people don't want to be helped or rescued. Their misery just wants company. They feast on your energy to fill an unquenchable void in their miserably perceived world. I want to encourage you to be positive. Seek happiness. Find the silver lining. Be yourself and don't let go. Joy is a mindset. It's your life. You are the one who controls the decisions you make. You are the one who has to live with the consequences. It all falls on you about the things you do. We are on a perpetual grind to achieve success. It's time to stop and take some time to be happy. I generate my happiness and I share my love and light with all. My foundation is sure with Jesus Christ and my ceiling reaches up to heaven above. I no longer trade my beauty for the ashes of the miserable. I just pray that God blesses them and watches over them until they see the light as well. How about you? Are you positive? Is your glass half full? Or are you dying of thirst? Please share your comments below.  Thank you for reading this article and supporting this blogspace. Stay safe, warm, masked and healthy. Take Care and God Bless!!!