Friday, February 19, 2021

It's time for you to live guilt free

Have you ever been guilted into doing something? I mean begged, pleaded, demanded, browbeaten and watered with tears to do something that you KNEW you wanted no part of? Why do we keep allowing this to happen? Wouldn't the world be a better place if we just said no? Imagine being free to be with no hang ups or setbacks. No cares. No responsibilities.  Just living our lives the way we want. Think about this....why do we let people push our buttons? Others who are close to us (who should have said no as well) know the emotional triggers to bend our will into theirs. They bite off more than they can chew then pass the leftovers to us. But we accept begrudgingly and commiserate the entire time. Sometimes it works, but usually it's a recipe for burnout and disaster.   Well, the pandemic has turned the world upside down. Self care has become a priority, and sheltering in place has eliminated most physical contact. Life is too short to give yourself to irrelevant causes. Transitioning side hustles into multiple streams of income takes time, energy and planning. I've got other things to do with my limited after work hours. And you do too. How many times have you put your dreams on the backburner to help someone else achieve theirs? Do you like propping others up? Do you want your time in the spotlight? Do you want to shake the chains that are binding you? Join me on this journey as we make better choices to lead our best lives. The purple life. Let me know what you think.  Share your comments below.  Thanks for stopping by.  Stay safe, warm and healthy. Take Care and God Bless!!!

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